Hey, Hey, Welcome back!
I have Carolina Sotomayor. A four-time lineage Reiki Master fertility womb healer. Carolina opens up about her personal journey of using Reiki to conceive her son, Ollie. She shares her inspiring tale and discusses how she helps other women overcome emotional hurdles blocking their path to conception.
Our chat takes a deeply emotional route as we navigate through Carolina's personal experience with grief, healing, and the subsequent spiritual journey. After losing her father unexpectedly, she found solace in Reiki, which not only helped her heal but also led to the conception of her son. Packed with practical advice and tips, Carolina also highlights how Oracle cards and journaling can help individuals connect with their spirit babies.
Carolina gives us powerful insights. Check the link below for a free fertility reiki meditation.
Don't miss this enlightening episode!
In Love, light and gratitude
Jessica xxx
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Free Fertility Reiki Mediation
Free 3 day trail to Make a Baby Membership
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Email - jessica@thefertilitymind.com
Website - https://www.thefertilitymind.com
Amazon Store - https://www.amazon.com/author/thefertilitymind
Hey, Hey, Welcome back!
I have Carolina Sotomayor. A four-time lineage Reiki Master fertility womb healer. Carolina opens up about her personal journey of using Reiki to conceive her son, Ollie. She shares her inspiring tale and discusses how she helps other women overcome emotional hurdles blocking their path to conception.
Our chat takes a deeply emotional route as we navigate through Carolina's personal experience with grief, healing, and the subsequent spiritual journey. After losing her father unexpectedly, she found solace in Reiki, which not only helped her heal but also led to the conception of her son. Packed with practical advice and tips, Carolina also highlights how Oracle cards and journaling can help individuals connect with their spirit babies.
Carolina gives us powerful insights. Check the link below for a free fertility reiki meditation.
Don't miss this enlightening episode!
In Love, light and gratitude
Jessica xxx
Links to Carolina
Free Fertility Reiki Mediation
Free 3 day trail to Make a Baby Membership
Instagram
Email - jessica@thefertilitymind.com
Website - https://www.thefertilitymind.com
Amazon Store - https://www.amazon.com/author/thefertilitymind
Welcome to the Fertility Mind podcast. I am your host, jessica Friesen, a certified fertility mindset coach, a sound healer and an international best-selling author. My mission for this podcast is to give you weekly episodes where you hear my own success with IVF and how mindset and manifestation changed it all for me. You will also hear from my guests who share their success stories in the fertility world. I want you to know that you are not alone. Even when things feel tough and when things feel like they aren't going your way. The tools and techniques you will get in this podcast, I know, can change everything for you too. So thanks for being here with me today and let's dive in. Hello and welcome back. I am so excited for you guys to be here with me today because I have Carolina with me and she is a Ricky Master and she has four lineages under her mastery. So, carolina, please explain to our audience what it is that you do, because I'm so excited for them to hear today's episode and get to know you and your incredible work that you do.
Speaker 2:Hi, thanks so much for having me. I'm Carolina, so it's my yore. I am a Ricky womb healer. I use Ricky to help women heal the trapped emotions stuck in their wombs and their bodies that is blocking them from conceiving, because not everything with conceiving your dream baby or your spirit baby is physical. A lot of it's mental, as you know, and a lot of it's emotional. And I actually use Ricky to conceive my son Ollie, who's now almost seven, and I have taken my journey and now allowing and sharing it with the world, and I help women just do that. They clear their blockages and it opens that sacral plexus chakra, opens their womb, connect them to their spirit baby and thus they're healing like future lineages and ending generational trauma in the past, because what they're healing are deep wounds. Some of it's ancestral, some of it's not, a lot of it's lived experiences and so far we have 95 Ricky babies to date. As of today, we got our 95th yesterday. So we're super excited and I serve women in my membership, the Make a Baby membership, and now my Make a Baby headquarters, which is my three month program.
Speaker 2:Amazing, and you have a podcast as well. Yeah, it's called the Make a Baby podcast, so we're just keeping it all the Make a Baby, just keeping it really simple around here simple scales, complex fails. So, yeah, we're interested in helping you Make a Baby and helping you heal along the way. Ricky's just the healing modality that I use and it works for many people. I have a TikTok and a lot of people get pregnant just from watching my TikToks and from YouTube. But if you're interested in doing more closer work and working inside of a community, the membership is a great introductory way to work with me. You can try it free for three days. I publish as much free content as possible. I believe that healing and coaching go together, as you know.
Speaker 2:So, like a lot of my style of Ricky is very different. I'm very specific. A lot of Ricky masters don't have a niche or a specialty. I do, and I always have. For the most part, I only practice online. I don't do in person anymore, but I did in person. I'm based in Omaha, nebraska, so I used to be in person in a chiropractor's office for years, so I quit actually one month before the pandemic. I was kind of burnt out. It's like kind of burnt out. My husband's like I need you more home. My son was little, and so it's funny I always get to things and arrive to a place right before everyone else does, like the collective. It's like I get to it like three to four weeks prior. So I ended my lease in the chiropractor's office this month of the month and I went into hibernation mode one month prior to the pandemic hitting us.
Speaker 1:I just have to say wow, wow to 95 babies and wow that your intuition or your awareness just said you know what? I'm burnt out, we're going to go into a bit of hibernation mode and you did that right before the craziness of the world happened and that you were still able to provide your services, just no longer in person. I just think that's so incredible. I was on our podcast last week and we had just had like such a beautiful conversation. We're best friends now. Yes, honestly, like in. Just the vibe is real, even in your introduction, like I was, just like I instantly feel at ease with you and it's I love, I love, love, love. How people can come together and share what it is that they do, because it's all for the greater, like collective consciousness, it's the greater good and I think what you are doing is Thank you, it's been.
Speaker 2:It's all because of TikTok I reached so many people. We have over 18,000 followers on TikTok, which is 18,000 people like choose to have me in the world is mind blowing. I grew up in a town that had a thousand people in it, so like 18,000 people. Are you kidding me? I'm so humbled, so grateful. But 2024 we have some big stuff planned. So I'm like, ooh, we're excited. I'm like coming into this year has been coming home into my, into my body, into my, to my worth, into my power, and I'm just like we're just getting started.
Speaker 1:Amazing. I'm. I'm excited to watch you like I'm, so Thank you. So how did you get into becoming a Reiki master? What kind of sparked this for you? Sure?
Speaker 2:I my dad died in 2014, April 2014. My husband proposed in September. We got married in December. We got married very quickly for literally 90 days to the day that we, from the time we got engaged to the time we got married, we were in our early 30s. We're like, and we his family had strict religious views about we had to be married in order to live together and we were just like ready to go and I was living life very fast because I thought I was going to die fast because my dad had just died. So I had like this really aggressive way of living of like now is now. I am not waiting for anything, so not necessarily a healthy way, but the the choice to marry him was not impulsive, but anyway, tangent, Fast forward. I did get into grief counseling.
Speaker 2:Losing my dad ended up being the most disruptive thing that's ever happened to my life. I use the word disruptive because I don't know another way to describe death. I never lost a person before that was so close to me, like I had lost grandparents and had watched them die, but there had been not such a close intimacy, not such a close kinship as a parent to a child, Like they were kind of hands off grandparents. So it was just like almost a stranger. You know, like I, this is my mom's death mom. This is my mom's dad, this is my dad's mom. I both watched them die and they sat next to their beds and stuff. But it was really just kind of strange because my dad and I had a complex relationship, particularly because he was a difficult person and he was a very unhealed person. Later did I? I discovered through group counseling, years later, years, years later, after he died, that he was a narcissist and I had never heard that word before. But at the time of his death I felt unsafe in the world and I think that was something made sense, because how does a person that used to call me every day stop? How do they exist? How do they no longer exist? How are they just ashes and earn? How are they? How am I paying for their commission? How am I handling their estate? How am I the one that he never like let into his personal business, his finances? Why am I having to go to a lawyer and handle all these things at 31? My in-laws had never even been through anything that I was dealing with. Their parents were still living. I didn't have any guidance and I was just doing it off the cuff at 31, which is pretty young in my opinion, to handling such serious matters. You're an adult at 31, but nobody fucking tells you how to handle or how to handle such very mature, very serious things like as probate court and being sued and things like that Siblings fighting over leftover money and how to handle storage and when your state's away. It's all very complicated. So that was pretty heavy.
Speaker 2:And with using a grief counselor, fast forward to 2016. At the beginning of 2016, she's like you should be further along I was trying to conceive at this point and we had been trying to conceive for a while and nothing was happening. I had gotten testing done, I had done, my hormones were fine, I had had IUD, but I had taken out months and months before. My period was regular, it was ovulating, Everything was normal. I went and saw the specialist and she's like you, this is grief, but you're already doing grief therapy. Maybe you should try some anti-depressants and the therapist is like maybe we should get some anti-depressants. I had done anti-depressants in my 20s and it wasn't for me. I had done Adderall and I had done other mood stabilizers and it just altered me so badly that it was not where I wanted to be.
Speaker 2:So at this point, because of the questions I was asking after my dad died of, like, this is so bizarre how does this happen? Why does this exist? Why does my relationship have to end with him? Why can't I talk to my dad? All I want to do is talk to my dad. I want to feel safe again. I want to feel like myself again, because he was not around much when I was a child so I was always seeking his approval. So when we finally did get close as later in my life, I was hungry for it. My inner child was like daddy, I'm here and like I was daddy's girl. So when he died, that fucking rocked me to the core. And so then you start to question, like what relationships are real?
Speaker 2:And all of this is going through my spiritual journey, learning what spirit guides are, learning how to meditate, learning how to become, because essentially then my goal in life was being newlywed, start a family, be a medium in that order and be a medium so that I can talk to my dad again. Because I was like I don't believe, I've never believed, that you just die, that you cease to exist, Like the essence of you are. That can't just disappear. That's not fathomable to me. So I was on this mission, the spiritual journey to become a medium, because I believe in psychics and right before our wedding I went to a psychic medium and she validated me in so many ways. So I started taking classes with her. And here's the kicker If you don't stop and heal, I believe the universe will smack you down, or some people say God smack.
Speaker 2:So at this point in the beginning of 2016, I was going really hard, not understanding how unhealed I was, even though I was in therapy. Imagine that. And then I had horses and I was riding horses still, like everything was good. I fell in a ditch, fell off my horse, got a really gnarly severe concussion, put on medical leave. That's the God smack. And then, because I didn't know how to sit still and everyone was like are you sure you're okay? Therapist is like we need to. Probably like there's reasons why. She's saying you know antidepressants. And so then my concussion is not healing.
Speaker 2:Halfway through my medical leave, Ryan, my husband takes me to the second medium shop. I was like I'm going to need some rocks for my concussion. She goes you don't need crystals, you need Reiki. That same therapy appointment, that same week Therapist is like if you're not going to do antidepressants, you need to do Reiki. Here's a card Go to this lady.
Speaker 2:The next week I got Reiki. It was the first time I felt like I can breathe. It's still less than two years almost two years at this point that my dad had died almost, and it was the first time I felt like I could take a deep breath since he had passed and I became addicted to this feeling. So that was March and April. We were testing positive with Oli pregnant, so it took one Reiki session to open me up. But also at that point I was Done.
Speaker 2:I was so done with being unhappy, so done with being hurt. I was so done of being devastated. I was so over feeling like shit. I was so tired of being depressed. I was so tired of my husband having to remind me to shower. I was so done I was ready to pick up.
Speaker 2:So I had, right before that, Reiki session. I remember him driving me there because I couldn't drive on medical leave, I couldn't watch TV and I couldn't be on my phone. So there's not a whole lot to do. So literally, I think the universe is like she's stubborn AF. We need to make this situation so severe that she's not distracted from what does she want most? She wants a baby. So what do you do to a person? What can you do when you can't watch TV, your eyes can't focus and you can't pass the memory test at the neurologist? I can't say the numbers backwards in the order that they wanted me to? You have sex. This is what we did after every session. I had sex and I had a baby.
Speaker 2:But what changed for me was I felt happy. I felt safe again in my body. I felt like I could breathe. Before then, my nervous system was so freaking wrecked that I didn't have any way to collect my energy or to calm our grounds. I was a very the most ungrounded person probably walking on the planet and this lady eventually went on to give me Reiki my entire pregnancy through my birth, Actively gave me distance Reiki through my birth. I had severe traumatic birth. I had a really bad postpartum that almost took me two years to come out of and I got certified when Ollie was six months old as a way to help me through that PPA and PPD. The birth trauma really is what complicated my postpartum. So through Reiki, that's what allowed me to heal.
Speaker 2:And then with every Reiki certification I got, I became addicted to that feeling. It's like a high when you're like, oh, I'm powerful, I can do this. Anyone can learn Reiki. It was super powerful to learn that I could actually like my spiritual gifts were not a joke all my life. I can see ghosts. As young as four or five, I remember seeing ghosts in my home where I grew up with my mom, Like why I could always hear stuff. Or like in my dad's house I swear like all these things that would happen just randomly. I'd be in the kitchen. He's like stop playing with the remote, and the remotes would be right next to him in the coffee table and it would be blaring static from the radio. So it was very validating.
Speaker 2:Every Reiki certification and treatment I got, my spiritual gifts became clearer and clearer and the more I could talk to my dad, the more that I could talk to my spirit guides, I could talk to my angels, the also I learned to do Reiki for all the like my son and my husband and I was like, wait a minute, this is changing my life, this is a permanent thing. And, like my gifts of mediumship that had set out long, long time ago became very evidential, very real. So Reiki was introduced to me as from the therapist and the psychic. In the same week I went and got it and I got pregnant Well, and so I like I need to do this for the rest of my life. And then it just expanded from there.
Speaker 2:Reiki is meant to evolve. Any any great teacher that I've ever had has said that Reiki has been to evolve for every practitioner. That's why there's like so many different lineages in the world. There's angel Reiki, crystal Reiki, all kinds of Reiki. So I've taken Reiki from when I started online a few years ago at the beginning of the pandemic I had. I had served over 500 women at that point and everything went back to the womb.
Speaker 2:Everything, like everything, goes back to the womb and it's. It's. The womb is not just giving birth to babies, it is your source of emotional safety, emotional security, your, your worth, your connection to your soul, anything you create in the world, everything that you're curious about, everything that you're passionate about. Also, All of your emotions are stored there, in my opinion. I mean, you can store emotions anywhere in your body, but the essence of like it's a bad word but like tank, like your storage tank of emotions, because we're taught to stuff as a society, as an American society, we're taught to stuff. We're taught to ignore and shut down and the word they get stored, they're typically in the womb, from what I see. So everything goes back to the womb and like whether a person feels seen, heard, valued, known all of those really are just the root causes of things. Do you feel seen? Do you feel safe?
Speaker 2:If I can make a person feel safe with Reiki, I can change their lives, Because if you feel safe, you'll operate different, you'll stand different, you will make decisions different, your perspective will shift, you'll be able to see things from a different way. So it's a matter of like determining who do they feel safe with. How can I make them feel safe or help them heal to feel safe within themselves, feel safe to feel their emotions? A lot of women don't feel safe to feel their emotions or that kind of thing. So really, emotional safety is a huge thing that I teach, Because if you feel emotionally safe, I can't, you can change your life, but if you don't feel emotionally safe, you're going to be fearful, you're not going to show up. You're not going to try for goals. You're going to be a doormat. You're going to put yourself last. You're going to overcompensate for shitty relationships. You're going to tell yourself lies, that I'm happy, but everything's okay.
Speaker 2:So so many things can go wrong in a blocked but infertility is the number one sign of a blocked sacral plexus chakra or blocked womb. And it's the same few things that are the causes behind this. We always start with father relationships, because with women who are trying or any person that has a uterus, we start with the father relationship because they're the ones who are supposed to give you emotional safety first. Then we start with mother. Then we do your own conception and birth. When you're an inner child, we do, we'll address any, any losses or connected to your spirit, baby. And then we also do womb blessings and womb, womb clearings and womb clearings, womb clearings and womb blessings. That's how that's clearing and then blessing. And we usually do that and call it the make a baby formula. But those are like this is nothing radical. So if everyone's like, oh, my God, she invented something new, no, I didn't.
Speaker 2:So if you get into the healing space, or if you get on shadow, shadow work, take talk. These are all the things. I just make it very simple is like these are the order in which we've had great success with. If you heal your father relationship and that and I don't care if your father relationship is fantastic and he's awesome right now, I care between zero and seven how is his relationship with your mom when they were pregnant? What was your mom's relationship like with him? Because, did he show up or was he even around? Because that's all going to. If a dad's around but doesn't come to your games or doesn't show you attention and maybe he's a really great provider, then that's an influence you're worth in how you. A lot of people have a fear of being seen. Do you? Do you shrink yourself? That has an influence on how a person shows up and has a woman shows up in their life and that can affect your fertility.
Speaker 1:So wow, you just unpacked so much right there and I really want to say thank you for that. It actually just made me reflect on my own fertility journey and it made me reflect on my own healing journey and it also made me it reminded me exactly why I got into mindset, work and understanding, manifestation and different things like that, and I really truly believe that healing is imperative for everyone, whether it's easy or not. It is something that if you don't heal, it does find its way back to you, and I honestly wish Reiki was in my awareness during my fertility journeys. It's something that I just wasn't aware of. It wasn't a healing modality and I didn't where I was in that space and in that time I wasn't actively searching different modalities.
Speaker 1:I had a friend from high school that was practicing Chinese medicine, so I had reached out to her because I thought like in my mind, just where I was, I was like, oh, my goodness, I can, maybe there's an herb, maybe there's something that can help with my fertility treatments.
Speaker 1:And she had talked about acupuncture and I had also seen some acupuncture pamphlets in my fertility clinic.
Speaker 1:So those just went hand in hand for me and that's why I love that I get to do this. We get to raise people's awareness of what emotional impacts are and how they are stored in our body and how, when you release them and you heal from them, you show up differently, you act differently, you feel differently. And just even talking about Reiki as a healing modality and Reiki and how you have had such success on your own journey and in your client's journey and I would love for the world to be more attuned to understanding healing modalities such as Reiki. So I want to thank you for unpacking everything that you just did. I think it's incredible and the awareness does need to be shared of you know our body is. You know it's such an amazing thing, but it can also stop us from doing things as well when you are dealing with the emotional impacts and the traumas of your life that stay stored within you. Tell us a bit more about how you can connect with your spirit babies.
Speaker 2:Oh, I love this so much. So, spirit babies, you are a. Everyone is born a medium and with psychic abilities. In my opinion, it's just whether or not you choose to exercise them. So it's like can I shoot a hoop or can I play a softball? Like, how many times did you, if you play a sport, how many times did you practice something? Literally, it's a muscle, literally it is a something you have to work at. For me, mediumship is how I connect with spirit babies.
Speaker 2:For you, with you on a live session or, if you want to easy, the easiest two ways I recommend are getting a deck of Oracle cards, cleansing them, carrying them with you for a week. Make sure you hit it three times with your fist before you pull any cards, cast a bubble. This is all the literal steps you need to do to do everything safely and that most people don't say. Just get a deck of cards and you set the intention of who you're talking to, and that's not to create fear, but it's like literal. Just like you wear a hard hat on construction things, there are certain things you need to do in the spiritual realm to protect yourself and to know exactly what you're doing Once you cast a bubble and you can visualize that and just say I want to talk to my spirit, baby of love and light that wants to come to my womb, and then ask it a question. The question and you pull the card is going to be like what do I need to know for X? What do I need to focus on today? It's never yes or no questions. I recommend Oracle cards, ones that you like, because Tarot are great too. But it's imagined like the difference between Oracle cards and Tarot is Oracle cards have messages on the cards. It's a great entry. Non, it's a no brainer. It's not a hard way to instantly get a message. And then, but the cards are very easy to go ahead and just pull out, carry with you. They usually come in a case, come with a booklet. You can do a spread. But like what do I need to know for my fertility today? Or baby, what wisdom do you want me to know for today? What do I, what do I need to ask the doctor today? And pull a card and it will give you direction. Choose the deck that comes to you or that you like. You can buy your own deck of cards, dispelling any myths there.
Speaker 2:The second is journaling. I call it intuitive journaling. It is a, it's a thing, it's where you can write a letter to baby and then write down the first thought that comes to your mind. For anyone who's asking like or thinking about like what? So spirit, jesus, consciousness, higher self, universe, mother Earth, my Reiki guides, my spirit guides, they all speak through consciousness, which is your thoughts. So it's making sure, if you are going to do intuitive journaling, make sure you have you've drank water, you've eaten, make sure you're grounded, because eating and drinking are grounding, to make sure that you have space where you're not going to be interrupted because it's just being open to receiving, being open to receiving these thoughts and with. I'm not going to go into the clear abilities, but if you're interested, there's like eight different clear abilities and. But intuitive journaling is trusting what comes into your head, the first thought, and writing it down. And it's asking questions like maybe the first question is dear spirit, baby, what is the first thing I need to know? Or how are you doing today? And then writing down the first and trusting the first thought. If you're talking yourself out of what you heard, then that's your ego interrupting your flow of consciousness. Again, this is brain training but over time you can trust that and and you can talk to your baby that way. I just sometimes those people want to shortcut it and that's okay to just depending on your. Maybe they don't want to.
Speaker 2:Like I was the reiki master. Every time I went in for a session, she's like you know you could do this. I was like that's nice, I just lay on the table. I just lay on the table, I'm not here to do that. You're special, I'm not, but you are special, you can do it. I was just, I wasn't open to it. I was open to receiving the reiki as it wasn't open to being her or being when I thought was her and like you're a special elf. Nobody is an elf, it's like you know, like I am. I am pretty woo, I'm pretty spiritual, but most people are like oh my God, you're pretty normal. What do you want me to wear a pointy hat? Like I'm not a witch? Yes, anyway, but the? So I think it's really important that you can understand.
Speaker 2:Journaling and pulling cards are probably the easiest way to connect with your spirit baby Meditation, meditation and setting the intention at the beginning of the meditation. We have spirit baby meditations in our membership. I actually have one. I can send it to you to link in the show notes as a freebie. It's a. It's a. You listen to the reiki guided meditation. It's my voice, it's original. It's recorded with frequency so float, so flow geo music. You listen to it right before you go to sleep and then you can meet your spirit baby in your dreams while you're sleeping. And it's another way so you can have space held for you, wow.
Speaker 1:I can be goosebumps, and before we pressed record, you were talking about how you can even talk to babies that you've lost.
Speaker 2:Tell us a little bit more about that please Sure, this started a trigger warning. Trigger warning for this one. So am I 20 is I had an abortion and it was really important to me that eventually I learned to talk to her and to. So I treat every loss, every abortion, every attempted fertility treatment, as is. It is a loss, it's true. Them all the same, meaning like we need to acknowledge, honor, process the emotion and then do a womb clearing and then a womb blessing, because there, if you ever walked into a room after someone argued, you can feel the residual energy in the air and you're like, mmm, some shit happens. So with that, you need to understand that that's also in your womb. It's just painful, it's not like you know someone had an argument, it's lingering. So we need to make sure that each of those beings, each of those souls, were connected with how we do that. I am a medium, so my gift is connecting and seeing inside people's wombs and seeing like, where is the second energy, if there's any second energy left from them, honoring, I believe that babies that don't make it past the womb Complete. This is based on sole contract. Research and studying in courses I've taken in mentorship is that sole contracts are completed inside the womb and sole contracts are made before they come. And again, this may not be your belief system, but this is how many people understand why and why you couldn't have done anything wrong. Like everything happens for a reason, if that helps you, I don't necessarily believe everything happens for a reason. I think that there is choices in our souls before we come here and make choices and in line with choosing us for certain reasons, and it might be just learning to accept unconditional love and we pull cards for that and I channel and I ask why did you come? Why did you leave? What information do you have for a next baby? What do you have for her healing journey? I think the babies that have lost have insight. They've been inside the womb. Is there anything that she needs to change? Is there anything I'm not seeing that you can share with me on this journey? Is there anything about her life that she needs to be aware of?
Speaker 2:I think asking the baby that's been inside the womb that what needs to happen for her to conceive her next baby is incredibly insightful and for anything it's almost like the way I put it is. I tend to do a really good job at putting things into like layman terms or making this super normal. This is normal. That we're doing this, like this is not weird. It's like almost like what's the shortcut to the study guide to get an A on the test? Like, ask, ask, like. Or the baby that you eventually will conceive. How do you want to be born? It's shortcut, this shit. Let's get the best possible outcome from the person that is involved. So I take that approach and like okay, tell me everything we need to know so we can get, so we can ace this, so we can have the baby that she's wanting. What is that baby like? And then sometimes the baby that they usually say angel baby for any baby that has passed or has been lost, and spirit baby for babies that are yet to be conceived. So it is very insightful and very fulfilling for most women who have lost babies and provides them a lot of closure. But I only offer that session if they ask for it. They only offer like.
Speaker 2:It is a very personal thing. Some women want it right after. They usually say let's wait two weeks minimum. Baby needs to have integrated to the other side. Usually, if it's like an adult soul that's passed or like an older soul, it's 90 days for them to integrate and fully like pass over. But with spirit babies it happens faster. So but a two week time is really what I require. Like two week, like after the loss. Some women want it before they like maybe before they try again. So maybe there's been two years or a year gap since they lost the baby and they want to try really soon. The first thing I'm like okay, before we can start on dad stuff like how many losses have you had? All right, let's start there. There's usually when I'm channeling live on TikTok I'm like have you had any losses? Cause that's really the most important thing to process, because coming from there also depending there might be birth trauma like we have to clear all of that before we get to the under stuff. It's like getting cutting through the layers, you know.
Speaker 1:Well, honestly, I think I'm speechless. I think this service is incredible. I never knew about this. I honestly feel like I could talk to you for hours and I think I really want to commend you for doing this work.
Speaker 2:I'm so grateful for you having me here on the podcast. I love sharing space with you.
Speaker 1:It is honestly. I love how synchronicities happen. I love how your mind can't conceive how you get connected with people and how we got connected is incredible and I am like, seriously, I have goosebumps. I am so grateful that you're here. I'm grateful for the work that you're doing.
Speaker 2:Thank you so much for having me. If any of your listeners love this episode, I would love to hear from them. Just shoot me a DM on Instagram at the Carolina Institute of Major. I love hearing if you love a podcast episode. When I am sharing space and I love, I want to know your story and I want to connect with any of your listeners.
Speaker 1:Absolutely so. All of your links will be in the show notes so that they can connect you and find you, and I honestly feel like so blessed that we have been connected and that we get to share this.
Speaker 2:I'm so honored.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:The feeling is so mutual and so deep.
Speaker 1:Is there anything else that you want to share with our listeners?
Speaker 2:today, the impossible is possible and everything is figureoutable. It just may not be obvious.
Speaker 1:That's amazing, that's amazing.
Speaker 2:Thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank you so much for having me.
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